{"id":123391,"date":"2024-12-21T09:13:42","date_gmt":"2024-12-21T08:13:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/?p=123391"},"modified":"2024-12-21T09:15:16","modified_gmt":"2024-12-21T08:15:16","slug":"teme-koje-pokrecu-najvece-bozicne-svade-nekad-je-bolje-sutjeti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/2024\/12\/teme-koje-pokrecu-najvece-bozicne-svade-nekad-je-bolje-sutjeti\/","title":{"rendered":"Teme koje pokre\u0107u najve\u0107e bo\u017ei\u0107ne sva\u0111e: Nekad je bolje \u0161utjeti"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Blagdani su vrijeme okupljanja obitelji i, budimo iskreni, u\u017eivanja u jelu i pilu. No, odre\u0111ene teme mogu bo\u017ei\u0107ni ru\u010dak ili ve\u010deru pretvoriti u ratni film. I to onaj u kojemu nitko ne \u017eeli glumiti. Ako \u017eelite izbje\u0107i neugodnosti, evo nekoliko savjeta o tome koja pitanja i razgovore na sve\u010danim obiteljskim okupljanjima valja izbje\u0107i u \u0161to \u0161irem luku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Politika, izbori, religija<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>To su savr\u0161ene teme ako \u017eelite unijeti malo hladnog vjetra u toplu blagdansku atmosferu. Rasprave o izborima, Milanovi\u0107u, Plenkovi\u0107u, migrantima, religijama ili bilo \u010demu \u0161to o\u0161tro polarizira ljude, najbolje je ostaviti za neko drugo vrijeme. Ili nikad. Jer, realno, tko \u017eeli slu\u0161ati ro\u0111aka Stipu kako se bori s teorijama zavjere dok puni usta francuskom salatom?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ne ulazite u tu\u0111e ljubavne \u017eivote ili odabire<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Kad \u0107e svadba?&#8221; &#8220;A djeca? Jo\u0161 ni\u0161ta?&#8221; &#8220;Jo\u0161 uvijek si sama?&#8221; Ako ne \u017eelite riskirati da vas netko polije \u010da\u0161om vina, jednostavno nemojte postavljati ovakva pitanja. Ljudi ne vole da se njihovi privatni \u017eivoti razvla\u010de po stolu izme\u0111u purice i mlinaca. Ne ti\u010de vas se. Nije va\u0161 problem. Za\u0161utite.<\/p><div id=\"mojev-2790600400\" class=\"mojev-u-tekstu mojev-entity-placement\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;text-align: center;\"><div class=\"mojev-adlabel\">oglas<\/div><div style=\"height: 250px;\"><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-8106111766207173\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- Prikazni 1 u tekstu -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-8106111766207173\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"8535551207\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div><\/div><br style=\"clear: both; display: block; float: none;\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Po\u0161tujte tu\u0111e prehrambene izbore<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;\u0160to, opet vegansko?&#8221; &#8220;Jel to stvarno zdravo?&#8221; Zamislite kako biste se osje\u0107ali da netko analizira i dovodi u pitanje va\u0161e prehrambene navike. Nije ugodno, zar ne? Ako netko ne jede janjetinu, po\u0161tedite ga komentara i dociranja. Osim ako niste nutricionist pa \u017eelite s drugima podijeliti svoje stru\u010dno znanja. Ako niste, nikog ne zanima va\u0161e mi\u0161ljenje o prehrani pa \u010dak i kad ste sami sebi duhoviti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Nemojte kritizirati ru\u010dak<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Komentari poput &#8220;malo je preslano&#8221; ili &#8220;imam bolji recept za francusku&#8221; apsolutno su zabranjeni. Tko god kuhao taj ru\u010dak, vjerojatno je proveo pola dana u kuhinji pa zaslu\u017euje barem osmijeh i zahvalu. Ako vam ba\u0161 nije po ukusu, progutajte (doslovno) i nastavite dalje. Malo pristojnosti vas ne\u0107e ubiti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ne o\u017eivljavajte stare sukobe<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Mislite li da je ovo ba\u0161 prava prilika da sada, kada ste svi zajedno na okupu, rije\u0161ite stare razmirice i zamjerke? \u017divo se sje\u0107ate svih detalja koji vas progone ve\u0107 godinama? Nitko drugi ih se vi\u0161e ne sje\u0107a i neka tako ostane. Bo\u017ei\u0107 nije vrijeme za kopanje po bolnoj pro\u0161losti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u010ca\u0161e i \u010da\u0161ice brojite isklju\u010divo sebi<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Nema potrebe nekome brojati \u010da\u0161e vina ili komentirati koliko se &#8220;opustio&#8221;. Jedino \u0161to \u017eelite od blagdana jest da ljudi budu veseli, a ne da vas netko mrko gleda dok otvarate novu bocu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Darovi nisu natjecanje<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Ako niste zadovoljni darom, zadr\u017eite to za sebe. Va\u0161 ne\u0107ak se mo\u017eda potrudio da vam kupi set za izradu goblena, a vi to mo\u017eete vidjeti kao priliku za novi hobi. Iako znate da taj goblen ne\u0107e vidjeti svjetlo dana. <\/p>\n<div id=\"mojev-1570235481\" class=\"mojev-kraj-teksta mojev-entity-placement\" style=\"margin-bottom: 20px;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;text-align: center;\"><div class=\"mojev-adlabel\">oglas<\/div><div style=\"height: 250px;\"><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-8106111766207173\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- Display-1 -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-8106111766207173\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"1465712950\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Uglavnom, malo takta nikome ne\u0107e na\u0161koditi. Neka vam bo\u017ei\u0107ni ru\u010dak bude ispunjen smijehom, a ne suzama. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":93041,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[613,385],"class_list":["post-123391","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-mozaik","tag-bonton","tag-bozic"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/123391","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=123391"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/123391\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/93041"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=123391"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=123391"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=123391"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}