{"id":21270,"date":"2019-01-13T09:27:32","date_gmt":"2019-01-13T08:27:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/?p=21270"},"modified":"2019-01-13T12:18:47","modified_gmt":"2019-01-13T11:18:47","slug":"roditelji-bake-i-djedovi-vam-se-smiju-iza-leda-presucuju-puno-toga-zbog-mira-u-kuci","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/2019\/01\/roditelji-bake-i-djedovi-vam-se-smiju-iza-leda-presucuju-puno-toga-zbog-mira-u-kuci\/","title":{"rendered":"Roditelji, bake i djedovi vam ne govore ovo zbog mira u ku\u0107i"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>&#8220;Sve mame i tate, po\u010dujte! Mi bake i djedovi \u017eeljeli bismo da znate istinu&#8221;, pi\u0161e portal <a href=\"https:\/\/www.scarymommy.com\/grandparents-want-parents-to-know\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\">Scary Mommy<\/a>, poznat po tome \u0161to o roditeljstvu i djeci govori iskreno i bez zadr\u0161ke.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>U 15 to\u010daka donose poruke koje bi ve\u0107ina baka i djedova najradije uputila svojoj djeci ali \u010desto to ne u\u010dine, \u0161to se ka\u017ee, zbog mira u ku\u0107i. No da im se da prilika iskreno govoriti, vjerojatno bi ovo rekli:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Ne \u017eelimo ba\u0161 stalno \u010duvati va\u0161u djecu<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Da, mi jako volimo svoje unuke, mo\u017eda i vi\u0161e nego volimo vas. Eto izgovorili smo to. Ako ne vi\u0161e, onda definitivno druga\u010dije. No ipak ne \u017eelimo \u010duvati va\u0161u djecu ba\u0161 stalno. Mi smo svoju djecu podigli. Taj brod je otplovio. Oprostite dragi, ali sada je na vama red.<\/p><div id=\"mojev-2195590689\" class=\"mojev-u-tekstu mojev-entity-placement\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;text-align: center;\"><div class=\"mojev-adlabel\">oglas<\/div><div style=\"height: 250px;\"><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-8106111766207173\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- Prikazni 1 u tekstu -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-8106111766207173\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"8535551207\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div><\/div><br style=\"clear: both; display: block; float: none;\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>2. <\/strong>Ne sla\u017eemo se s va\u0161im stilom roditeljstva<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Kad nam ostavljate djecu na \u010duvanje \u2013 i to besplatno \u2013 ne gnjavite nas s va\u0161im pravilima. Mi smo ve\u0107 odgojili jedno, dvoje, troje ili vi\u0161e djece i sna\u0107i \u0107emo se i bez vas. Ba\u0161 nas briga ako vam se ne svi\u0111a na\u0161 stil odgoja. Ni nama se ne svi\u0111a va\u0161.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Ponekad la\u017eemo da nas nema doma<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Da, to je \u017eiva istina. Danas nam nije do \u010duvanja djece.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Va\u0161a nam djeca sve ka\u017eu<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Znamo oko \u010dega se mama i tata sva\u0111aju. Znali smo da je na putu beba broj \u010detiri i puno prije nego ste nam vi to rekli. I znamo \u0161to nama zamjerate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Hranimo va\u0161u djecu brzom hranom i damo im sve \u0161to po\u017eele<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>To ve\u0107 ionako znate, no to \u010dinimo zato da bi ti va\u0161i mali huligani napokon za\u0161utjeli. Ne zbog ljubavi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Smijemo se kad vam se va\u0161a djeca suprotstave<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Tako ste se i vi nama suprotstavljali. To se zove karma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Namjerno im kupujemo igra\u010dke koje vas nerviraju<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Vidi prethodno obja\u0161njenje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">8. Dozvoljavamo im da po cijeli dan igraju video igre<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>To \u010dinimo zato \u0161to se ne \u017eimo igrati s njima ba\u0161 cijeli dan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">9. Ponekad smo umorni<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I to jako umorni. Puno smo stariji od vas i vi\u0161e nismo izdr\u017eljivi poput vas. Dajte nam da se odmorimo. Pustite nas na miru. Unajmite dadilju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">10. Kod nas \u0107e va\u0161a djeca biti sigurna<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Pa nismo glupi. Ne morate nam govoriti da djecu ne pu\u0161tamo samu na ulicu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">11. Va\u0161a djeca la\u017eu<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Da, va\u0161i mali an\u0111eli su vam lagali kad su rekli da smi im dozvolili za zapale ma\u010dku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">12. Mi pi\u0161emo njihove doma\u0107e zada\u0107e<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Oprostite, ali igrali su video igrice \u010ditav dan pa nisu stigli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">13. Jedu \u010dokoladu za doru\u010dak<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I ru\u010dak. I ve\u010deru. Sretno prilikom uspavljivanja ve\u010deras.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">14. Na licima nam je stalno la\u017ean smje\u0161ak<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>To je onaj la\u017eni smje\u0161ak za kojeg se nadamo da \u0107e postati pravi, no skinemo ga s lica \u010dim preuzmete djecu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">15. Volimo tu va\u0161u djecu sa svakim djeli\u0107em na\u0161ega bi\u0107a<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I to je razlog za\u0161to \u010dinimo sve ovo \u0161to \u010dinimo. Jednog dana \u0107ete to znati. Jednog dana \u0107ete i vi biti bake i djedovi koji \u0107e le\u017eati u kadi punoj vru\u0107e vode s \u010da\u0161om vina u ruci, dok \u0107e auto biti sparkiran malo dalje tako da nitko ne zna da ste zapravo kod ku\u0107e.<\/p>\n<div id=\"mojev-1191807711\" class=\"mojev-kraj-teksta mojev-entity-placement\" style=\"margin-bottom: 20px;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;text-align: center;\"><div class=\"mojev-adlabel\">oglas<\/div><div style=\"height: 250px;\"><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-8106111766207173\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- Display-1 -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-8106111766207173\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"1465712950\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bake i djedovi su uvijek nasmijani, dobro raspolo\u017eeni, rado \u010duvaju svoje unuke jer ionako nemaju nekog drugog posla, zar ne? Pa &#8211; ne! Da ne \u0161ute kako bi odr\u017eali mir u ku\u0107i, bake i djedovi bi vam najradije rekli ne\u0161to od ovoga&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":21281,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[1353,980,198,1167],"class_list":["post-21270","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-mozaik","tag-baka-servis","tag-djedovi","tag-obitelj","tag-unucad"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21270","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21270"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21270\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21281"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21270"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21270"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21270"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}