{"id":3284,"date":"2015-02-22T06:44:36","date_gmt":"2015-02-22T05:44:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/?p=3284"},"modified":"2015-03-02T21:58:43","modified_gmt":"2015-03-02T20:58:43","slug":"najcesce-greske-baka-i-djedova","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/2015\/02\/najcesce-greske-baka-i-djedova\/","title":{"rendered":"Naj\u010de\u0161\u0107e gre\u0161ke baka i djedova"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Biti baka i djed, to \u0107e vam svatko re\u0107i, ne\u0161to je najljep\u0161e u \u017eivotu. Ponovno imate \u0161ansu u\u017eivati u maloj djeci, ali ovaj put bez onolikog pritiska kao kad ste odgajali vlastitu djecu. Mo\u017eete se opustiti, unuke mo\u017eete i razmaziti, a na kraju dana \u2013 vratiti ih njihovim roditeljima. Me\u0111utim, bake i djedovi \u010dine i mnoge gre\u0161ke, sve u najboljoj namjeri, naravno. Portal <a title=\"Helpguide\" href=\"http:\/\/www.helpguide.org\/articles\/grandparenting\/how-to-be-a-better-grandparent.htm\" target=\"_blank\">Helpguide.org<\/a> nabrojao je one naj\u010de\u0161\u0107e.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Poku\u0161avate biti roditelj<\/h3>\n<p>Koliko god da \u017eeljeli svojoj djeci re\u0107i kako bi trebali odgajati svoju djecu, to nije va\u0161a uloga. Po\u0161tujte roditeljske odluke koje va\u0161a djeca donose u vezi svoje djece.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Kupovanje ljubavi<\/h3>\n<p>Bake i djedovi se te\u0161ko odupiru porivu da svoju unu\u010dad obasipaju poklonima, no bolje je provjeriti s njihovim roditeljima prije nego im ne\u0161to kupite. Mo\u017eda je dobra zamjena za neki dar, neka zabavna aktivnost u kojoj mo\u017eete zajedni\u010dki sudjelovati. Radite s unucima ne\u0161to u \u010demu \u0107ete oboje u\u017eivati i \u0161to \u0107e im ostati u lijepom sje\u0107anju.<\/p><div id=\"mojev-1887951166\" class=\"mojev-u-tekstu mojev-entity-placement\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;text-align: center;\"><div class=\"mojev-adlabel\">oglas<\/div><div style=\"height: 250px;\"><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-8106111766207173\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- Prikazni 1 u tekstu -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-8106111766207173\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"8535551207\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div><\/div><br style=\"clear: both; display: block; float: none;\"\/>\n<h3>3. Razmazili ste prve unuke<\/h3>\n<p>To se dosta \u010desto doga\u0111a: razmazite prve unuke i onda to ne mo\u017eete ponoviti s ostalima. Va\u0161a vlastita djeca, koja imaju svoju djecu ne\u0161to kasnije u \u017eivotu, to vam poslije mogu zamjeriti. Zapamtite da \u0161togod radili s prvim unu\u010detom (davanje novca, odlazak na izlete, posjete zoolo\u0161kom i sli\u010dno), uspostavit \u0107e model po kojem se morate ravnati i kad su u pitanju svi ostali unuci.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Ignoriranje granica<\/h3>\n<p>Baka ili djed koji ne priznaju granice i pravila i koji ohrabriju unuke da ih kr\u0161e, mogu prouzro\u010diti bijes njihovih roditelja. Kad dopu\u0161tate unucima da budu zlo\u010desti, da previ\u0161e u\u017eivaju u slatki\u0161ima ili brzoj hrani, da ignoriraju vrijeme za spavanje, vi zapravo poti\u010dete nezdravo pona\u0161anje i \u010dinite njihovim roditeljima ionako te\u017eak posao jo\u0161 te\u017eim.<\/p>\n<div id=\"mojev-4139320029\" class=\"mojev-kraj-teksta mojev-entity-placement\" style=\"margin-bottom: 20px;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;text-align: center;\"><div class=\"mojev-adlabel\">oglas<\/div><div style=\"height: 250px;\"><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-8106111766207173\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- Display-1 -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-8106111766207173\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"1465712950\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Biti baka i djed ne\u0161to je najljep\u0161e u \u017eivotu. Me\u0111utim, morate paziti da svojoj velikom ljubavlju prema unucima, ne pomrsite ra\u010dune njihovim roditeljima i ote\u017eate im posao. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3304,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[317,272,198,318],"class_list":["post-3284","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-mozaik","tag-baka","tag-djed","tag-obitelj","tag-unuci"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3284","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3284"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3284\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3304"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3284"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3284"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3284"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}