{"id":9375,"date":"2017-05-02T08:22:46","date_gmt":"2017-05-02T06:22:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/?p=9375"},"modified":"2017-05-02T08:25:34","modified_gmt":"2017-05-02T06:25:34","slug":"mozemo-li-ostati-prijatelji-s-bivsima","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/2017\/05\/mozemo-li-ostati-prijatelji-s-bivsima\/","title":{"rendered":"Mo\u017eemo li ostati prijatelji s biv\u0161ima?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201eMo\u017eemo li ostati prijatelji?\u201c \u2013 to je standardno pitanje koje se izgovara poslije svakog prekida veze ili razvoda braka.<\/p>\n<p>To pitanje ponekad se postavlja iz \u010diste kurtoazije, tek toliko da onaj drugi ne bi bio ba\u0161 toliko povrije\u0111en. U drugim slu\u010dajevima to doista i mislimo: stvarno bismo \u017eeljeli ostati u dobrim odnosima s time koga napu\u0161tamo jer nam je do njega ili nje zapravo stalo \u2013 ali ne u romanti\u010dnom smislu.<\/p>\n<p>Iako je to plemenita namjera, britanski filozof <strong>Alain de Botton<\/strong> u videu \u201e\u0160kola \u017eivota\u201c ka\u017ee kako prijateljstvo nakon prekida veze ili braka rijetko funkcionira.\u00a0\u201e\u010cvrsto vjerujemo u ideju da mi zapravo nismo \u010dudovi\u0161ta i koliko nam je poznato, dobri ljudi uvijek nastoje ostati prijatelji sa svojim biv\u0161ima\u201c, ka\u017ee de Botton.<\/p><div id=\"mojev-3104085811\" class=\"mojev-u-tekstu mojev-entity-placement\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;text-align: center;\"><div class=\"mojev-adlabel\">oglas<\/div><div style=\"height: 250px;\"><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-8106111766207173\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- Prikazni 1 u tekstu -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-8106111766207173\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"8535551207\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div><\/div><br style=\"clear: both; display: block; float: none;\"\/>\n<p>Me\u0111utim, prijateljstvo poslije prekida romanti\u010dne veze naj\u010de\u0161\u0107e uzrokuje novu patnju za onoga tko je ostavljen.\u00a0\u201eKorak od ljubavnika do prijatelja je prili\u010dno poni\u017eavaju\u0107a degradacija. Svaki susret s biv\u0161im nu\u017eno \u0107e ponovno zapaliti tra\u010dak nade a nakon toga i novu bol. Na taj na\u010din ne\u0107emo dobiti prijatelja, ve\u0107 nesvjesnog mu\u010ditelja\u201c, ka\u017ee de Botton.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/uTuDks4ogs0?rel=0?ecver=1\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<div id=\"mojev-2156049057\" class=\"mojev-kraj-teksta mojev-entity-placement\" style=\"margin-bottom: 20px;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;text-align: center;\"><div class=\"mojev-adlabel\">oglas<\/div><div style=\"height: 250px;\"><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-8106111766207173\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- Display-1 -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-8106111766207173\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"1465712950\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Korak od ljubavnika do prijatelja je prili\u010dno poni\u017eavaju\u0107a degradacija. Svaki susret s biv\u0161im nu\u017eno \u0107e ponovno zapaliti tra\u010dak nade a nakon toga i novu bol. Na taj na\u010din ne\u0107emo dobiti prijatelja, ve\u0107 nesvjesnog mu\u010ditelja.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":6206,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[304,252,258],"class_list":["post-9375","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ljubav","tag-brak","tag-razvod","tag-veze"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9375","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9375"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9375\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6206"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9375"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9375"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mojevrijeme.hr\/magazin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9375"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}